Rule #181: Love her because of who she is.
Love a woman for who she is, not just because she is VASTLY better than the last one or any other that came before. Love her in her own right, for what she does that makes you smile, not just because you no longer cry. Make sure that she knows that she’s special and that you love her for who she is, and not just her ability to fill the role as the lady in your life.
(This comes from rulesofalady, http://www.rulesofalady2.tumblr.com/, I can’t take credit. I just changed the pronouns.)
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